This is so true. we all go for the same reason but then we are ashamed to be seen on our knees. every time a start a blowjob with an audience, they propose to go in the cabin...
New Zealand saunas can be the same. We are all gay or bi and have come to the venue to have cock fun. I’ve been in situations where 6 or 8 guys have been in a dark room and other than a bit of feeling around, no one does anything. I’m not body beautiful but you do get rejected a lot. Can’t work it out. Other times though, it can be a cock sucking orgy.
This is what used to annoy me quite a bit in gay saunas, we were all gay,we all wanted to suck cock and get fucked but nobody would make a move when we should all have been having fantastic gay sex parties. I used to go in and start sucking the first hard cock I could see and hope that we ended up with a three or four group party